- How to be the Dominant
- Role Playing BDSM for beginners
- Beginners Guide to Anal sex done right
- Guide to hoods & sensory deprivation
- Getting partners into the kinky game
- Beginners First Bondage Scene
- What BDSM Isn't
- The Dos & Don'ts in BDSM
- Laying the groundwork
- The Joy of Anal Sex
- How to get the juices flowing
- You are what you are
- Spank My Booty
- Staying Alive
- A First Public Scene
- Why We Like What We Like
- Nothing Says I Love You Like...
- Caring For Your Toys
- A Guide To Fisting For Fun
- Humiliation, Tying Up, and Exposed Genitals
- The Art of Wax Play
- New Items
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Why we like what we like
The range of fetishes is huge, and not every person will like every fetish but there is a whole load of them to choose from.
For example, a fellow may have a huge boot fetish and love to look at women in boots, and the way the top of the boot is against the skin, the tightness of it, imagining how it would feel to touch. Now I dare you to deny this is sexual, but its sexual pleasure without even undressing!This would be the ideal time to describe what exactly a fetish is. A fetish can be defined as:
"Something, such as a material object or a nonsexual part of the body, that arouses sexual desire and may become necessary for sexual gratification."
Now compare that to the above boot fetish and you will see that it well and truly fits the description. After all, when a lady dresses in boots, it compliments her overall look, the end result is to attract attention. This fetish, by the way, is technically termed Refertism. To see how many people are fascinated with boots, just check out "knee high boots" on flickr.com. You'll be suprised.
To a man (or woman) with a boot fetish autumn/winter is a great time because the ladies in boots are out in force.
However there are even more obscure fetishes, more extreme fetishes that may interlink with other fetishes, for example, trampling and crushing. They may sound similar but for fetishists they are miles apart. Trampling involves a top (someone in control, usually a woman) with or without boots literally trampling on a man and perhaps his private parts. The more he is trampled, the more sexually aroused he becomes. Whereas crushing usually involved a woman with high heels, block heels, or some other type of big shoe squashing the penis and perhaps testicles with the shoes, not crushing them, but squashing the penis and scrotum carefully.
But yet again there are much more extreme forms of this. If you really want to see some of the more extreme material, you can view it here. Just don't say I didn't warn you.
We can't explain why we like what we like, except to say that we are just sexually wired differently to the majority of the populous and we should enjoy our different outlook. To deny what makes you tick is to deny your very essence.
