- How to be the Dominant
- Role Playing BDSM for beginners
- Beginners Guide to Anal sex done right
- Guide to hoods & sensory deprivation
- Getting partners into the kinky game
- Beginners First Bondage Scene
- What BDSM Isn't
- The Dos & Don'ts in BDSM
- Laying the groundwork
- The Joy of Anal Sex
- How to get the juices flowing
- You are what you are
- Spank My Booty
- Staying Alive
- A First Public Scene
- Why We Like What We Like
- Nothing Says I Love You Like...
- Caring For Your Toys
- A Guide To Fisting For Fun
- Humiliation, Tying Up, and Exposed Genitals
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(Often referred to in derogatory terms by the ignorant and unknowing.)
I take it that if you are reading this, you mustn't be one of the above!
If you're interested in it, it's for one of two reasons. You either want to do it to increase pleasure (even self pleasure), or (if your feeling kinky) you want to use it as a punishment.
After they have tried it some would describe normal sex as comparing a Ford to a Ferrari. Its a whole different ballpark, didn't ya know!
A lot of people have hangups regarding anal sex. It is understandable, as from birth we have been conditioned to associate anything anal as dirty and unhealthy.
To those of you that have dared to think outside the box, its a new dimension to sex. What can it do? Well, for starters if you or your partner is male and you use a small anal plug that can massage the prostrate gland, you will have one of the biggest, eyes-rolling-into-the-back-of-your-head, oh-my-fucking-God-that-was-a-big-one!! orgasms. So much so that I hope you have something to wipe up the mess off anything nearby! For females too, it introduces a whole new dimension, the feeling of being full and knowing whats going on and then, at the moment of orgasm, it is pulled out...it's mind blowing!
It can also be used as a device to "control" naughty subbies (aka partners). Some people do not "like" anal sex and having their bottom filled with a butt plug can be humiliating. It can be kept in there for several hours, perhaps even whilst doing light duties and such. I even remember once, that a naughty girl who hadn't obeyed her Masters command was made to announce on the chat forum (of close, like-minded friends!) that her Master was displeased with her and had made her wear a rather large dildo whilst using the computer (the original reason she had been reprimanded).
A word from someone who found out the hard way, when you buy a dildo PLEASE don't go and just buy a big one because you think it will give you more pleasure, it won't. Its probably too big and will cause damage to you down there. The secret with anything anal related, is to go slowly. Work your way up through dildos as you become used to them and remember the old saying "too much lubrication is almost enough!"...use an anti bacterial non petroleum based lubricant such as Elbow grease or similar. It will make it go in much easier.
Now I guess you want to know how to put it up there ? ;) Well the easiest way to do it, is to lie on the bed and get into the fetal position. At this point your sphincter is 
open and you could put a small well-lubed butt plug up there. It will feel strange at first but it will be interesting. Now you can feel and play with it a bit. I'd try to describe the feeling, but you can't unless you've experienced it. You won't want to take it out again! Some people like to just lie there and experiment, others like to stand up and feel what its like.
On the other hand if your partner is being punished then you will need to be a bit more inventive. One thing to be aware of, is if your partner has submissive tendencies (yay!) is that it could cause them to zone out whilst 
getting off on the submissive nature of having things inserted into their rectum and blissing out on the humiliation factor, or to put it into kinkster terms, enter subspace. So go slow and gentle and make sure everything is slow and consensual and look after your partner as once they are blissed out they will probabily lose the ability to talk for a bit!
A word of warning though, anal sex can be very dangerous on a number of levels, firstly, there is a danger of using shared toys in the ass can cause transfer of some pretty nasty diseases. Don't be a cheap ass and buy toys for both of you, to only be used by you NOT by your partner. Its a good idea to perhaps keep them colored, blue for boys, pink for girls.
I hope this article sheds some light on one of the darker sides of fetishism.
